Lo & A-Rod had met years before, the star recalled to Ellen De Generes in April, that she and her "great guy," started dating thanks to a lunchtime run-in.The host would not let Lopez spare any detail—she was eating a Cobb salad and tortilla soup when she spotted the athlete on his way out of a Los Angeles restaurant."For some reason, I just felt like tapping him on the shoulder," she remembered. ), and they chatted for a bit, realizing they were both living in the city of stars and should hang out.You just simply enjoy them as a person and you’re happy with them just being who they are. Again, I have to emphasize that it’s Fixation, on the other hand, does not feel pleasant.It does not feel good, but it does feel very urgent, very important, and very stressful.And aren't we all glad that she decided to tap him on the shoulder that day!I think most women run into issues and confusion in their love lives because they don’t know what a truly healthy relationship looks like, and is supposed to feel like.
There is this idea that we have one soul mate and that real love stories are supposed to be filled with obstacles and drama.It turns out—he already had her number for some platonic reason.A text later, they were having dinner."I don't remember what we had for dinner, but we had a nice dinner," she said. "Mama don't sleep over on the first date," she joked.When you’re fixated on someone, your relationship ceases to be about enjoyment and effortlessness.Instead, it is more like you are gasping for air, desperately hoping they’ll give you whatever it is you think you need from them.